It's Curtains for the Vagina

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    Labiaplasty, what the hell is that and who's doing it? Labiaplasty is a process of surgically trimming / beautifying the "beef curtains" or, in more medical terms, reducing the size of the inner labia in a woman's vagina.  This cosmetic procedure is increasing in popularity by the day [up 30% from 2006] .  However, the question remains, why on Earth would a woman put herself through such torment? Where do I begin?

Look, it's no mystery that many, if not most, women have body image issues, "I'm too this, I'm not enough that." As with any insecurity, we need a bench mark to weigh ourselves against the general population, how do we compare with other people.  There are two caveats here; 1. you don't know what men truly think about  vaginas or body types and 2. You don't have enough accurate comparisons to make an educated decision.  It's not like you can go out and take a random sample survey of 100 women and base your self esteem on that. Women have to rely on something far less accurate, deceptive, and insidious; women's magazines, television, and internet porn.

The media is ground zero for women, especially younger impressionable women, this is where they find their bench marks.

 Internet porn.  Why are they looking at internet porn? Because their boyfriends do and sex-ploitation is now common place at a painful young age.  This factor, combined with lack of direction and moral code, has led us into a sexual abyss.  LET'S NOT FORGET THE BAD BOY AND BAD GIRL MOTTO; "THINGS ARE FUN WHEN THEY ARE NAUGHTY AND WRONG".  If you make sexuality so common place it gets boring, you take the fun out of it.

The take home news:

1. Most Men look at Vaginas like we look at cars, "we will drive just about anything if it gets us from A to B. Albeit, we have our preferences when it comes to size, color, and performance but, in general, we like all types."  If your labia hangs a bit low it's not a big deal. Your vagina is a place of worship for us ;-)

1.a. Internet porn is not a valuable source as a reflection of the entire population.

2. Men look at your body and base it on your individual / personal potential, paying special attention to how comfortable and sexy you are in your own skin.  Meaning, stay in shape and work with the body nature gave you!  We never think; "Gee, if only she looked like Megan Fox."  We think; "Gee, if only she let her hair grow, went to the gym, and had an interest outside of "The Kardashians".

3. In most cases, A quick fix is not the answer.  Looking and feeling sexy is about the homework you do "inside".  Yes, you have to look hot on the outside but women get caught up in throwing money at their problems instead of getting their shit together and being ALL WOMAN.

4. Be careful before you go under the knife. Think about how ridiculous women like Joane Rivers look, nothing "funny" about that.  What starts as a simple fix can quickly become an addiction.

5. Notice men aren't getting their dicks fixed.  One caveat, I'm sure if there were a real penis enlargement procedure available, many would invest.

6. When ever you have a chance to influence a young woman from generation xxx, please tell her that what makes her desired by men and envied by women is overt Bad Girl attitude, a fit body, and stellar intellect.  Men commit to strong women who don't put up with our shit and women are jealous of what they don't have > confidence. 

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Comments

[youmakemesmile]

Mr. Santagati, thank you for being yourself!

[Lexi]

Steve, not gonna lie I just got dumped and after reading your posts I feel less like the village idiot and I'm already into the "I'll find better" phase in less than an hour.. You work wonders basically so THANK YOU :)

[Amelia]

This was a great article. Thanks Steve.

[Rarity626us]

Hey Steve! Just want to say I am enjoying everything you write not just this article. I picked up the Manual and applied some thought to my life. Needless to say I am having fun! Any woman who needs new inspiration toward the opposite sex would not go wrong reading this book. Some things were easy and some I am still working at. Wearing sexy panties really makes me feel good. yes...i am getting responses!

[lulu]

Hi Steve

I just bought your book on amazon and from the sneak preview pages I looked at I found myself smiling and laughing out loud so many times....a lot of it I apply anyway but I just think it's so refreshing to hear such a down to earth perspective from a guy....looking forward to receiving the book!

[Kathy]

Omg. Lol! I always say now I have heard it all when I hear something outrageous, only to find out I was wrong! The world always seems to come up with something a little more crazy each time I turn around. I can tell you this much, no surgery will be performed on me unless absolutely necessary. ;)