Taming Bad Boys

Comments

[cindy didych]

dear steve i just read your book. i am 49 years old. i put on my tight but not too tight jeans and a top with buttons just about to pop open with a lace bra on and high heels. a pair of sunglasses topped off the outfit which was totally appropriate for the daytime shopping I was going to do at the home depot. home depot is a fairly good place for service however you do have to ask. i could not believe it. i had four, yes four men come and offer me help. all these men were around my age. two came over for absolutly no reason, one helped me with plumbing supplies and the fourth came right over and helped me lift heavy tiles on to my cart. i did not even get a chance to lift one box of tiles on the cart. he did it all. thanks for the book. I know this book is for women of all ages, married or single it is nice to be noticed and have your tiles lifted.

[Vienna7]

Just found out about you from my girlfriend, and watched a few clips.

I would say that a bad boy is a free spirit and doesn't necessarily need ot be "tamed" but understood and accepted. Or course, there is a certain amount of compromise in any relationship and that is where the taming (don't like using that word as I believe it cheapens this aspect of relationships) part comes in - for both people.

I am in a relationship with a guy who I'd say is 1/2 bad boy, 1/2 nice guy. I am exactly the same, so the relationship works out real well. We are basically caring, nice people, but have an edge. We have been together almost a year and we are talking a longer committment. Keeping fingers crossed that everything works out.

Point is, we should all stay little kids at heart to a certain extent and have a passion about life. We should all have convictions and lines we draw in the sand. Make yourself multi-faceted and life interesting...both people should do this in a relationship. Love, honor, compromise, have great sex...

[jos fielder]

Your bad boy theory is half-baked horseshit. It's an insult to both women and men. The bottom line is that you are a conventionally good-looking man with a good physique who gets away with murder. Your bad behaviour feeds off the insecurities of women and their adulation is like oxygen to you.